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There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you


Maya Angelou

Narcissistic abuse and Domestic Violence

What is Narcissistic Abuse?

What is Narcissistic Abuse?

What is Narcissistic Abuse?

 Abuse in any form is difficult to recognize sometimes, but narcissistic abuse is  particularly hard to notice, as the toxic relationship and the abuser  can present perfect in the beginning. Oftentimes, narcissistic abusers  can manipulate the truth or gaslight, which can in turn force you to  question your own sanity, integrity, or truth 

What is Domestic Violence?

What is Narcissistic Abuse?

What is Narcissistic Abuse?

domestic violence

Domestic abuse is a pattern of violent behavior (verbal , physical, sexual abuse) that is used to exert control in the relationship

How Common is it?

What is Narcissistic Abuse?

"But they don't actually hit me"

emotional abuse

 The CDC reports that more than 1 in 3 women and about 1 in 3 men in the United States experience intimate partner violence in their lifetime. 1 in 3 teens experience dating violence. Those who identify as nonbinary or LGBTQ+ are often even more likely to experience abuse 

"But they don't actually hit me"

"But they don't actually hit me"

"But they don't actually hit me"

low self esteem

Intimate partner violence (IPV) is more than physical abuse. Emotional, psychological, and financial abuse are all forms of IPV & abusive relationships. Yelling, name calling, put downs disguised as jokes, telling you you are "just too sensitive and should get over it" can be signs of emotional abuse.

What does it look like?

"But they don't actually hit me"

What does it look like?

abusive relationships

Initially it may be seemingly innocuous comments: "Oh I see that guy checking you out, it's that top you are wearing". "Where are you going and who will you be with?" It can feel like they are interested or even concerned, but quickly it escalates. Therapy for emotional and narcissistic abuse can help you heal.

Cycle of Violence

"But they don't actually hit me"

What does it look like?

cycle of violence

The honeymoon phase feels amazing and starts almost immediately. Gifts, promises, talk about the future, constant attention are like a drug, but it does not last.  If the cycle has happened in the past, the honeymoon phase will also including blaming "I've never been pushed so far, you need to work on your temper too". Narcissistic abuse can be difficult to spot, know what you are looking for.

It can happen to anyone

It can happen to anyone

It can happen to anyone

abused men

If you are experiencing this, you are not alone and it is NOT your fault. You are not responsible for the actions of others. Reach out today to get support. larissa@calmingconnection.com


National DV hotline: 800-799-7923 or text START to 88788


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